The spammage continues
Mar. 26th, 2008 01:44 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
(I feel like this should become "Vacation: Day Five-01" or something)
Surely everybody and their pet iguana has likely seen the link to the blog entry by now from the woman who claims that writing and reading m/m slash is perpetuating male heirarchy and expectations, rather than being the subversive, non-mainstream thing we all thought it was when many of us got into it several years ago - before the mainstream actually had ever heard of "slash" or "fanfiction."
My take on slash is that I enjoy it as a form of romance in a way that I don't any longer enjoy the vast majority of "typical" m/f romance novels, by and large. When I buy a book, I buy something about science or history, or suspense and sci-fi, but rarely do I buy a categorical romance, though I did when I was much younger. I understand this sounds like a rather shallow reason for enjoying something that takes up several hours of my life each week, but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise.
And as much as I love reading and occasionally contributing my own meta on my preferred slash pairings, the fact is that I rarely give it the kind of internal examination we were required in college to give Chaucer, or the reasons behind the 19th century labor movement. I am capable of that level of dissertation - I just don't want to, with slash, or even fanfic, all that much. Perhaps this is why I grew so impatient with all the POTC meta-chatter following DMC - are we not allowed to have something we just enjoy, without having to defend why, so long as we're nice to our fellow fen and don't try to step on their toes? I mean, I asked someone at another post earlier to define radical feminism and explain its appeal over what he called "liberal/status quo feminism." And while he gave me a pretty good explanation, and it's something I would gladly see parts of applied to real-world changes ... the fact is, when you try to apply it to something you do alone in your off-hours to unwind, it just comes across as so much overblown horseshit. Am I alone? Or just exceedingly shallow, that I don't see "something" political in EVERYTHING that comes across my field of vision on a daily basis?
EDIT: Unless lesbian fanfic is being written with an eye toward reality (e.g., women who don't have Barbie-figures and long, flowing hair, who don't want a man in their bed or between them and their girlfriend, or WATCHING), how is it any different from what I have to put up with out of many men on a regular basis? The only difference between their lesbian fantasies and my m/m ones is that they can discuss theirs out in public and it's accepted as being part and parcel of being a hetero man ... but if I try to discuss the fact that I like to watch two hot men get it on for my benefit, I'm perverted and weird. So ... I'd love for this FEMINIST to tell me why I should spend MY time and effort perpetuating a MAN'S fantasy in written form.
Surely everybody and their pet iguana has likely seen the link to the blog entry by now from the woman who claims that writing and reading m/m slash is perpetuating male heirarchy and expectations, rather than being the subversive, non-mainstream thing we all thought it was when many of us got into it several years ago - before the mainstream actually had ever heard of "slash" or "fanfiction."
My take on slash is that I enjoy it as a form of romance in a way that I don't any longer enjoy the vast majority of "typical" m/f romance novels, by and large. When I buy a book, I buy something about science or history, or suspense and sci-fi, but rarely do I buy a categorical romance, though I did when I was much younger. I understand this sounds like a rather shallow reason for enjoying something that takes up several hours of my life each week, but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise.
And as much as I love reading and occasionally contributing my own meta on my preferred slash pairings, the fact is that I rarely give it the kind of internal examination we were required in college to give Chaucer, or the reasons behind the 19th century labor movement. I am capable of that level of dissertation - I just don't want to, with slash, or even fanfic, all that much. Perhaps this is why I grew so impatient with all the POTC meta-chatter following DMC - are we not allowed to have something we just enjoy, without having to defend why, so long as we're nice to our fellow fen and don't try to step on their toes? I mean, I asked someone at another post earlier to define radical feminism and explain its appeal over what he called "liberal/status quo feminism." And while he gave me a pretty good explanation, and it's something I would gladly see parts of applied to real-world changes ... the fact is, when you try to apply it to something you do alone in your off-hours to unwind, it just comes across as so much overblown horseshit. Am I alone? Or just exceedingly shallow, that I don't see "something" political in EVERYTHING that comes across my field of vision on a daily basis?
EDIT: Unless lesbian fanfic is being written with an eye toward reality (e.g., women who don't have Barbie-figures and long, flowing hair, who don't want a man in their bed or between them and their girlfriend, or WATCHING), how is it any different from what I have to put up with out of many men on a regular basis? The only difference between their lesbian fantasies and my m/m ones is that they can discuss theirs out in public and it's accepted as being part and parcel of being a hetero man ... but if I try to discuss the fact that I like to watch two hot men get it on for my benefit, I'm perverted and weird. So ... I'd love for this FEMINIST to tell me why I should spend MY time and effort perpetuating a MAN'S fantasy in written form.
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Date: 2008-03-26 09:24 am (UTC)Your reason doesn't sound shallow at all, we're all here for the entertaining quality of fanfiction and in my world, it's not to be taken so very seriously. With the differences between peoples likes and dislikes, it would be impossible to live in even this kind of harmony that the communities I linger in, have.
I, for example, read and write slash and am quite particular about it, simply because that's the only kind of romantical literature I read, period. I've never appreciated the typical romance novels for the sole reason of them being absolutely unfathomable to me. I'm a terribly crude person, so I like to have my romances with a nip of austere and a splash of vehemence all peppered with the occasional wickedness and two characteristic and pretty men in a relationship tend to have that, so my literature of choice is rather obvious.
It's a pastime activity, a hobby, like you said; something to unwind with and it's shitloads of every kinds of fun.
Someone thinks that's twisted or peculiar, then, hey, by all means, there's no publicly announced thought-police as of yet :)
Dragging political and/or other 'real world' views and issues into something so completely leisurely just takes the breath away from it.
Of course it's fun, and yanks the carpet from under everything I just said, when someone writes a great snark toward something they feel strongly about in the form of a fic, but that happens so rarely that it's not really worth mentioning.
Oh, god I've done it again...sorry for ranting, carry on...
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Date: 2008-03-26 01:17 pm (UTC)See what you think and get back to me ...
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Date: 2008-03-26 01:38 pm (UTC)You know, cause my 'ship is, like, the antithesis of that...LOL :D
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Date: 2008-03-26 01:44 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 02:01 pm (UTC)But still, there's not too many of those either. Maybe we should ask for the link to the archive where they can be found in such vast quantities that they can be used for research material :)
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Date: 2008-03-26 02:31 pm (UTC)Sometimes I just want to say, "chill out, mate, just enjoy it" This is my unwinding time and I enjoy its shallowness :)
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Date: 2008-03-26 02:34 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 03:06 pm (UTC)As for me, well let's start with the fact that my back is GOING to go up anytime some 20 yr old babyfangirl starts to tell me that she's studying fandom for YEARS (years! I tell you! years!). I've been active in fandom and writing fanfic for 10 years. That's MY credibility. I don't write slash and rarely read it - but as a het writer, I'm going to take umbrage at the notion that all fanfiction simply reinforces the patriarchy. I don't like weepy clingy needy women in RL or in my fic. (Which would explain my adoration of Elizabeth Swann and Kara Thrace) I don't write 'em and I don't read 'em. The greater challenge is writing a relationship between two strong independent people, but it's what attracts me to the characters and drives me to try to write.
From what I could read (and my eyes kept glazing over so I may not have read all or read her correctly), there is no satisfying this girl. She doesn't like het because it reinforces the patriarchy. She doesn't like slash, because it reinforces the patriarchy. She doesn't like sex, apparently, because sex requires one to penetrate and one to be penetrated. Gee, last time I looked, that's the way we were designed (het or slash). So are we all - in RL and in fic - supposed to just masturbate?
And while I've said I don't read that much slash, if the "they all turn hetro at the end" was so prevalent as she claims, I sure would have run across it once or twice. Instead, I've never seen it; nor have my friends who read and write copious slash.
In the end, she started her "research" with her conclusions already drawn. And amazingly (WOW!), she found only stories that back up her conclusions! What A Coincidence! (/snark)
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Date: 2008-03-26 03:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 04:03 pm (UTC)However. Doesn't the fact that women are the puppet-masters account for something? I find it far more loathsome when one of the two characters being slashed takes on a weakling, 'femme' persona. Personally, what appeals to me about m/m slash is the idea that two virile men can give into an overwhelming attraction, one that flies in the face of patriarchal constraints.
Not to mention that, as you note, this is supposed to be a hobby. Most men enjoy the idea of 'lesbian' sex when sensationalized through pornography, why shouldn't women exploit the same through the romanticized guise of erotica? The fact that slash has become so prevalent is proof of women being able to own and revel in fantasies they have always had. And some have become authors of original work in their own right. That, to me, is liberation.
Great food for thought!
-G. ;D
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Date: 2008-03-26 07:14 pm (UTC)Yes! This is why I don't care for mpreg (I'm suprised she didn't have a long rant about that) besides the obvious anatomical problems.
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Date: 2008-03-26 07:24 pm (UTC)*It contains twice the hot men of het pairings!
*I have an attitude of "been there, done that *yawn*" toward het sex scenes.
*To address her sociological issues - I enjoy that the partners are on equal footing, no danger of pregnancy, etc.
Am I lesbophobic by saying that I just really don't care for the female anatomy? I don't care for het porn because of the extreme close-ups. It does nothing for me. I'm all about GLBT rights, and this lady pisses me off by suggesting otherwise. I'm pissed off that I have to defend my preferences at all.
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Date: 2008-03-26 07:41 pm (UTC)I read the article. It is so marred by generalisations and (whoops, there they are again) invalid syllogisms that it is laughable. But, of course, she won't enter into any kind of dialogue about her views. Oh, how very 'radical' to set up an opinion and then not listen to anyone else's views about it - to even go so far as to censor responses that disagree. Doesn't that sound like the very worst kind of attitude usually associated in the past with a stereotypical male???
Really, anyone that associates themselves with this lovely little corner of hatred - http://www.questioningtransgender.org/ - couched in nonsensical rhetoric, which I found when having a look at the links to other sites on that page, can only want one thing. Death to difference. Death to inclusivity. Death to any sense of kinship or harmony or compassion.
Wow. It made me SO SO FUCKING mad. I may have to go and write vast amounts of incredibly graphic gay porn to make myself feel better. Sheesh.
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Date: 2008-03-26 09:43 pm (UTC)Also, please do! ;D
-G.
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Date: 2008-03-26 09:47 pm (UTC)This is what I can not understand in radical feminism. It looks like all they are trying to accomplish is to feel supreme towards males, to be above a gender who's plumbing just happens to be different than the female's, which to me sounds like pursuing the exact same thing they are preaching is so horribly wrong. It has nothing to do with equality or the human rights of anyone.
Sad, very, very sad.
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:01 pm (UTC)Instead of being seen as slaves to the patriarchal patterns of the society, why can't the slash-consumers and -writers be seen as the ultimate feminists, afterall, we are taking our pleasure from making the decidedly male characters dance to our own tune ;)
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:16 pm (UTC)Most m/m authors don't take to that idea any better than most J/E authors have taken to the idea of possible self-insertion through the Elizabeth character.
And besides, 99+% of the people involved are writing for themselves (and/or a small group of like-minded friends) and don't want to hear the psychoanalysis - so it does tend to be outsiders, like this "dissenter," who are pointing at possible problems, without taking the time to involve the interested authors or readers. (The result being that the "research" goes nowhere.)
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:47 pm (UTC)And no, we're not supposed to even masturbate, anywhere, ever. We're asexual, we must be, since we don't have a clue what to do with our patriarchally-inclined selves and are confused of our own personalities to the point where we start turning gay men straight, straight men gay, we can't decide if we're all lesbian under the mask of being heterosexual, that mask that we're clinging on for dear life in our lesbofobia, and, oh, heck, let's just face it, we are in denial of sexuality even existing, in any form, we hate women just as much as the whole male gender does, and we curse the suffragettes for ever starting that whole nonsense in the first place. Man powa!
And if anybody dares to say that I am wrong, that this isn't the ultimate truth above all truths, I'll throw a tantrum and flip them the bird, cause I've researched this issue for, liek, at least three minutes and know, oh, everything.
*g*
Btw, someone has actually asked for reference links but so far none has been posted. I'm SO going to check back on that, just because :)
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:53 pm (UTC)I will say, though, that I'm happy to see an acknowledgement of fan fiction within academia (if she even fits into such a category). I personally think that it's a fascinating part of the literary culture, although I've definitely reached conclusions that are completely different from the writer of that blog. I'd also like to see more discussion of it at the scholarly level, if only to have people realize that alongside the very badly written fics are surprisingly well-written stories.
Oh, and totally agreed about the generalizations that she makes. Honestly. Her analysis isn't even approaching logical.
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Date: 2008-03-26 10:53 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2008-03-26 11:11 pm (UTC)lazybusy to take a serious look at it.)Really, honestly good fic - in any category (slash, het, etc) - tends to be rare. That's why so many activists (like "dissenter") and so many academics (that I'm surrounded by at the college) refuse to give it any credence. They will invariably point at that one measly little Mary Tyler Moore Characterization... :-p