Odd to lead off a post like this with thank-yous - I got balloons from
gryphons_lair and
ainsoph15 for my profile page. Gracias, guys! They're really cute!!
And now on to the misanthropy. Or whatever it should be called; I'm not sure. Maybe it's just mental laziness. All I know is I used to fall all over myself explaining something to someone, and if they didn't understand me, I'd keep explaining more. I used to lead off arguments or remarks by over-explaining my thought process. I used to kind of enjoy it.
But now? I do not. I've swung the other direction - if I say something and the person doesn't "get it" right away, I get impatient and annoyed with them. I don't feel like explaining myself, either at the outset so much, or especially on a follow-up. I don't know if I've just gotten tired of hearing this kind of thing in my job - interviewing and re-interviewing people, especially politicians, nets you all kinds of "let me clarify" or "that's not what I meant, this is" - and started associating over-explaining with lying, or what. I don't like to lie, so maybe I'm unconsciously started paring my explanations to show I don't? I don't know. (It doesn't help that in a lot of altercations on LJ, I've seen someone say one thing, and then say something else on the same subject later, when called or questioned on their first remarks.)