veronica_rich | The spammage continues

The spammage continues

(I feel like this should become "Vacation: Day Five-01" or something)

Surely everybody and their pet iguana has likely seen the link to the blog entry by now from the woman who claims that writing and reading m/m slash is perpetuating male heirarchy and expectations, rather than being the subversive, non-mainstream thing we all thought it was when many of us got into it several years ago - before the mainstream actually had ever heard of "slash" or "fanfiction."

My take on slash is that I enjoy it as a form of romance in a way that I don't any longer enjoy the vast majority of "typical" m/f romance novels, by and large. When I buy a book, I buy something about science or history, or suspense and sci-fi, but rarely do I buy a categorical romance, though I did when I was much younger. I understand this sounds like a rather shallow reason for enjoying something that takes up several hours of my life each week, but it would be disingenuous for me to pretend otherwise.

And as much as I love reading and occasionally contributing my own meta on my preferred slash pairings, the fact is that I rarely give it the kind of internal examination we were required in college to give Chaucer, or the reasons behind the 19th century labor movement. I am capable of that level of dissertation - I just don't want to, with slash, or even fanfic, all that much. Perhaps this is why I grew so impatient with all the POTC meta-chatter following DMC - are we not allowed to have something we just enjoy, without having to defend why, so long as we're nice to our fellow fen and don't try to step on their toes? I mean, I asked someone at another post earlier to define radical feminism and explain its appeal over what he called "liberal/status quo feminism." And while he gave me a pretty good explanation, and it's something I would gladly see parts of applied to real-world changes ... the fact is, when you try to apply it to something you do alone in your off-hours to unwind, it just comes across as so much overblown horseshit. Am I alone? Or just exceedingly shallow, that I don't see "something" political in EVERYTHING that comes across my field of vision on a daily basis?

EDIT: Unless lesbian fanfic is being written with an eye toward reality (e.g., women who don't have Barbie-figures and long, flowing hair, who don't want a man in their bed or between them and their girlfriend, or WATCHING), how is it any different from what I have to put up with out of many men on a regular basis? The only difference between their lesbian fantasies and my m/m ones is that they can discuss theirs out in public and it's accepted as being part and parcel of being a hetero man ... but if I try to discuss the fact that I like to watch two hot men get it on for my benefit, I'm perverted and weird. So ... I'd love for this FEMINIST to tell me why I should spend MY time and effort perpetuating a MAN'S fantasy in written form.

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What blog entry? I'd really like to read that, 'cause it sounds like something I could have a laugh at.

Your reason doesn't sound shallow at all, we're all here for the entertaining quality of fanfiction and in my world, it's not to be taken so very seriously. With the differences between peoples likes and dislikes, it would be impossible to live in even this kind of harmony that the communities I linger in, have.

I, for example, read and write slash and am quite particular about it, simply because that's the only kind of romantical literature I read, period. I've never appreciated the typical romance novels for the sole reason of them being absolutely unfathomable to me. I'm a terribly crude person, so I like to have my romances with a nip of austere and a splash of vehemence all peppered with the occasional wickedness and two characteristic and pretty men in a relationship tend to have that, so my literature of choice is rather obvious.
It's a pastime activity, a hobby, like you said; something to unwind with and it's shitloads of every kinds of fun.
Someone thinks that's twisted or peculiar, then, hey, by all means, there's no publicly announced thought-police as of yet :)

Dragging political and/or other 'real world' views and issues into something so completely leisurely just takes the breath away from it.
Of course it's fun, and yanks the carpet from under everything I just said, when someone writes a great snark toward something they feel strongly about in the form of a fic, but that happens so rarely that it's not really worth mentioning.

Oh, god I've done it again...sorry for ranting, carry on...

I agree with you. I read slash (and write it) for the fun and romance. I don't expect it to be analyzed or dissected, to me fandom is for fun...not intellectual debate.

Sometimes I just want to say, "chill out, mate, just enjoy it" This is my unwinding time and I enjoy its shallowness :)

Truthfully, I take issue with the whole idea that I "worship" the creators of these movies/shows/etc. I do nothing of the sort. I worship Johnny Depp's character of Jack Sparrow, Orlando Bloom's character of Will Turner, and so on. I like to think that I am in some small way making a social commentary on the historical period when I write my stories but I'm not really writing slash to save the world. As for being lesbophobic, that just makes me laugh. I don't write femslash in PotC because I don't like Elizabeth and would hate to saddle poor Anamaria with her. I realize the show's been off the air a few years now but there was plenty of femslash around when "Xena: Warrior Princess" was on the air. What we're seeing here is more of the anti-feminist feminism that Camille Paglia (sp?) started a few years ago. Suddenly everything that old school feminists have done is wrong and is merely playing into the hands of the patriarchy. Apparently, they need more topics for dissertations.

Hmm. I won't say that the idea that she forwards hasn't occurred to me on occasion, being a gender studies wonk and all (so please forgive the following dissertation, but I couldn't resist!). Certainly, slash falls into the typical romantic trope of having two men fight for the same woman (which POTC, to its credit, resisted for a while and in the long run, though the fact that DMC flirted with it is somewhat shameful when CotBP was so progressive in that regard, IMO), and by eliminating the rather unnecessary and typically personality-lite woman altogether, the rivals are free to clash in every way possible (Eve Kosofsky Sedwick's theory of the homosocial, for those who care to look it up). So, yes, it can be viewed as focusing on what really makes the world go around, men wrestling with one another.

However. Doesn't the fact that women are the puppet-masters account for something? I find it far more loathsome when one of the two characters being slashed takes on a weakling, 'femme' persona. Personally, what appeals to me about m/m slash is the idea that two virile men can give into an overwhelming attraction, one that flies in the face of patriarchal constraints.

Not to mention that, as you note, this is supposed to be a hobby. Most men enjoy the idea of 'lesbian' sex when sensationalized through pornography, why shouldn't women exploit the same through the romanticized guise of erotica? The fact that slash has become so prevalent is proof of women being able to own and revel in fantasies they have always had. And some have become authors of original work in their own right. That, to me, is liberation.

Great food for thought!
-G. ;D

I've mentioned my reasons for preferring slash before, but to recap some highlights:

*It contains twice the hot men of het pairings!
*I have an attitude of "been there, done that *yawn*" toward het sex scenes.
*To address her sociological issues - I enjoy that the partners are on equal footing, no danger of pregnancy, etc.

Am I lesbophobic by saying that I just really don't care for the female anatomy? I don't care for het porn because of the extreme close-ups. It does nothing for me. I'm all about GLBT rights, and this lady pisses me off by suggesting otherwise. I'm pissed off that I have to defend my preferences at all.

I have long held the view that radical feminists are nihilists by another name. They espouse separatism on every level. They demand a rigidity towards politics and the political which is just as unbending as any patriarchy. They undermine that there is any value in empathy whatsoever. They have so totally conflated gender with identity that they are unable to see anyone as simply 'human', only by how they gender-identify.

I read the article. It is so marred by generalisations and (whoops, there they are again) invalid syllogisms that it is laughable. But, of course, she won't enter into any kind of dialogue about her views. Oh, how very 'radical' to set up an opinion and then not listen to anyone else's views about it - to even go so far as to censor responses that disagree. Doesn't that sound like the very worst kind of attitude usually associated in the past with a stereotypical male???

Really, anyone that associates themselves with this lovely little corner of hatred - http://www.questioningtransgender.org/ - couched in nonsensical rhetoric, which I found when having a look at the links to other sites on that page, can only want one thing. Death to difference. Death to inclusivity. Death to any sense of kinship or harmony or compassion.

Wow. It made me SO SO FUCKING mad. I may have to go and write vast amounts of incredibly graphic gay porn to make myself feel better. Sheesh.

Goddamn, here I was thinking that I was just enjoying some hot smut, but I was really worshipping the male devil and perpetuating the hierarchy of men with my shameful penis envy! Thanks, over-analyzing blogger!

Gee. And here I thought fanfiction was just for fun. If I'm in a mood for slash, I go read slash, if I'm in a mood for het, I go read het. If I'm too busy with, you know, real life, I read nothing. Simple.

I am little surprised that more is not made of the perpetuation of sex-role stereotypes in some slash.

I read that yesterday and it was 'interesting'. It’s hard to give it any credence since apparently she read three stories and made a bunch of generalizations. There seems to be a whole lot of subscribing to mythology that is no where near as prevalent as she suggests.

Not all slash has the chicks-with-dicks, ‘somebody has to be the woman!’, uke/seme dynamic. The fandoms I read in, it is a very small fraction of what is written, thankfully.

The stuff about the relationships ending and everyone returning hetero at the end, WTF. I only saw anything like this once, and it was some twit who underwent some sort of intervention from her church group, which apparently made reading and writing slash and explicit mansex okay, as long as they eventually 'got right' and lived HEA with the perfect woman. (She wrote a pairing I didn't care for but it was a bit of a wank since she kept asking for recs of her new preferences and commenting on others fic in a similar vein.)

And the no lesbians thing, I actually thought lesbians were a bit of a slash trope, make the girlfriend/female lead a lesbian and everyone is happy and getting some, even if it's not explicitly.

You *are* weird, but not because you like to see/read about m/m sex and romance. *ducks*

Seriously, I'm not the most well-read when it comes to slash, but where exactly is the perpetuation of the patriarchy?

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