So true. You need to post this in a J/E community (if you haven't already).

I've found that most men, especially men who haven't worked with women much, are impressed when you act like "one of the guys" - dress in a work-ready manner and save any kissing-up/flirting for time when you're not at work.

A woman who uses T&A around men (if her job involves working with them, as mine have) is generally seen as a "helpless female" who expects the men around her to do her job for her.