ext_14908: (Jack Davenport (authormichals))
venusinchains ([identity profile] venusinchains.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] veronica_rich 2006-07-25 05:46 am (UTC)

Thank you. But, really, I wonder how many women are indecisive - as I was - and let their lives carry them into a marriage or relationship that includes one or more kids that they'd be better off without. You know what I mean? I think maybe I had it easier than I deserved.

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All but one of the miscarriages happened while I was still 20 - 25 years old, so I think my body bounced back pretty quickly and completely.

I must have misunderstood the bit about "spontaneous abortions." I also seem to remember the procedure for the "cleanup" after an incomplete miscarriage being called a DNC (and that it was short for something like "Dice-age and Cut-l-age"), but when I tried to look it up years later, I found nothing of the sort. I wondered if it wasn't some sort of crude medical practitioner's slang for the abortion procedure (which is basically what the "cleanup" procedure is), or if I just completely misunderstood what they were telling me.

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