fwiw, whether it's cyber or real life, sexual interraction should not involve minors, whether they admit their true age or not. And if you are cybering with someone and find out the'ye underage, stop any and all contact. I've done my share of heavy flirting when I was south of legal voting age (by phone rather than internet, and certainly not in real life), so I'm not going to say it's not going to happen, but nowadays, there's too many legal and moral quagmires involved. Best to give any such situation a *wide* berth.