Well, I'm really not concerned with the welfare of the child in this case - in this one case, I'm looking more at what could happen to the adult. It doesn't matter so much that you turned out OK and don't feel scarred by the experience - had your parents or an authority found out you were doing such a thing with an overage person, you're not the one whose reputation and life could've been legally and socially ruined over it. You know?