Actually, I've seen the argument used that if you're a woman and you're not using your writing time toward femmeslash or some other female-centric pairing, you're a waste of space. (I distinctly remember one Elizabeth-J/E fan sniffing at some POTC fans' preference for writing Navy slash, when the Navy guys weren't onscreen NEARLY as much as the vaunted Lizzie. That's the sort of separatism I want to slap.)